How many times do you refer to a gay person as 'out'? What you're saying, in effect, is that they're out to you. That's all. There is a perception that coming out is a single act, that one day you're sitting quietly in your closet and hoping that no-one looks at you too closely, and the next day you've emerged in a shower of rainbow flags and glitter and from that point on everybody knows, for better or worse - but that simply isn't true.
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